Peter Aiuto

Peter Michael Aiuto

Thursday, May 3rd, 1956 - Tuesday, December 25th, 2018
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Peter M. Aiuto, age 62, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 25th, 2018. He was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to Salvatore and Rita (DeLorenzo) Aiuto. Pete grew up in South Philly, and spent every summer on the beach in Atlantic City where he met the love of his life at the age of 14 on Bellevue Avenue. Pete served as a butler at the Atlantic City Hilton for 24 years, where he displayed a knack for hospitality. Most recently, for the past four years, Pete has worked at Resorts Casino and Hotel, where he was welcomed with open arms and quickly became part of the Resorts family. Pete wanted each and every guest to feel like they were coming to his home and he worked diligently to make sure everything was presented perfectly. He truly lived life to the fullest through simple pleasures, and he possessed a love for travel and sense of wonder. Throughout his life Pete has travelled the world and has sailed on 27 cruises. Pete had a larger than life personality and his optimism was contagious. He was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin, and friend. Pete will truly be missed by all, and there will always be a place set for him at the table. Pete is survived by his loving wife of 39 years, Danette (Chiarlone) Aiuto; three children and their spouses: Alyssa (Andrea), Christian (Aubrey), and Raymond (Flor); sister and her husband Angela and Michael Auble and their children, Amanda, Kristine, Stephanie, and Michael. Also surviving are Pete’s pride and joy, his granddaughters, Madeline and Giuliana, sister-in-law, Doretta Chiarlone, and many cousins. Pete was predeceased by his parents, and brother, Salvatore Aiuto, Jr. Family, friends, and others whose lives Pete touched are invited to attend a viewing from 9-11AM, followed by mass at St. Nicholas of Tolentine Church, 1409 Pacific Avenue, Atlantic City, and burial at Holy Cross Cemetery, Mays Landing, NJ on Saturday, December 29th, 2018 to celebrate Pete’s life. The family requests no flowers, please. Arrangements by and condolences at
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  • Visitation

    Saturday, December 29th, 2018 | 9:00am - 11:00am
    Saturday, December 29th, 2018 9:00am - 11:00am
    St. Nicholas of Tolentine
    1409 Pacific Avenue
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  • Service

    Saturday, December 29th, 2018 | 11:00am
    Saturday, December 29th, 2018 11:00am
    St. Nicholas of Tolentine
    1409 Pacific Avenue
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  • Interment

    Holy Cross Cemetery (Mays Landing)
    5061 Harding Highway
    MAYS LANDING, NJ 08330
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Private Condolence

steve burkhart

Posted at 01:22pm
danette so sorry for loss. pete was truly one of the greats. he will be missed by all...


Posted at 06:12pm
My deepest condolences to the family, Life is such a precious gift. We are never prepared for the loss of our dear love one. Please find comfort from the scriptures 2Cor 1:3,4 also Isaiah 33:24. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Posted at 08:41pm
Dear Danette ,Alyssa, Christian, Raymond and Family,
Our hearts are filled with sorrow on the passing of such a great and loving person. He was always full of life and never viewed the glass half empty . We had a lot of laughs thru the years and we enjoyed his humor and positive attitude toward life .We will never forget his willingness to always help others. On the beach, at the Miss America pageant parade or on the street in Ventnor we will never forget that smile and his passion to make sure that everyone was having a good time . God Bless You Pete , Love Lou ,Gina ,Christina and Lou Jr.

Diana Gaspero~Leotta

Posted at 01:56pm
Danette and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of all those summers on Bellevue Avenue. I know his family, Rita and Ray and my Mom and Dad will all be waiting for Pete when he arrives in Heaven. He will be sadly missed, he was a pleasure to know.

nancy bowen

Posted at 10:55am
I had the privilege of working at the Hilton with "Pete the Butler" for many years. He was the Best at what he did. Nothing was ever too much for Pete. If you needed it, Pete got it! He treated his guests and his fellow employees like family. I have many fond memories of sharing photos of trips, family events and never forget his excitement each year for the Miss America parade! Pete had a true passion for life and his family meant the world to him. May memories of your beloved Pete and the love of family and friends give you strength in the days ahead. With our Sincerest Sympathy, Tom and Nancy Bowen

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